tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post4276939984258029885..comments2023-10-31T08:17:37.496-05:00Comments on Life's Perfect Pictures: InvisibleJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09308504008636615857noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-84015209689688069062010-05-13T10:26:13.785-05:002010-05-13T10:26:13.785-05:00Wow, Jo, I had no idea so much was going on. I kin...Wow, Jo, I had no idea so much was going on. I kind of had a feeling when I read a couple of updates on FB, but I neglected to follow through. I think about you often and want you to know that I am here lurking in the background. If you ever need me you can email, call, leave me a comment and say PAY ATTENTION... What makes this so bad is that I know exactly what you mean. Thanks for sharing your deepest thoughts and trusting us with them.<br /><br />I don't know all of the details, but what I think from this post is that - as you know - this could be a test or a trial. If it's His will then your prayers will be answered. Continue to pray, but try to focus on you. Resting, doing things you love, loving yourself, bettering yourself and all of that. Being the wife, mom and woman that God wants you to be despite of the surroundings. As you grow and change, the Knight will either catch on and get got by God or fade away. <br /><br />I want for you whatever makes you happy. Feeling invisible and dealing with the actions that make you invisible is tough. <br /><br />You are beautiful, respected, talented and gifted... You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Smooches, hugs & love.Petulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11246335892746223347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-68129553171737652722010-05-10T22:49:44.211-05:002010-05-10T22:49:44.211-05:00Glad I stopped by for a read ... I will pray that ...Glad I stopped by for a read ... I will pray that either 'God gets him' or 'he gets God' ... know you are loved and thought about often.Misshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01371981620044003763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-84145384970583758962010-05-10T12:45:32.696-05:002010-05-10T12:45:32.696-05:00It's hard to be a woman because our existence ...It's hard to be a woman because our existence means taking care of everyone else around us first, and then finally, ourselves. I have struggled with that for a long time and although I love being a mom, I really hate being the bottom of the totem pole all the time. I joke that even the cats are higher on the pole than me.<br /><br />I can deal with it most times, but if I am tired or sick, I crumble. When I had hernia surgery last year, I was up making dinner the next NIGHT while my mom sat on the couch with the cat. Yeah, I kept going because I HAD to. The family didn't step it up. Was I angry? Yep. Still am because things haven't changed.<br /><br />You are not alone. Many women experience this when their kids are grown and they find their marriages have changed or are non-existent. Now you know why folks get divorced after 25 years of marriage. It takes WORK--many years of work and if you don't, you are left with a stranger. <br /><br />Hang in there, my friend. With time and prayer, you will know what to do. God will whisper in your ear what is right for you and yes, YOU are what matters right now. You can't help your children if you can't help yourself. <br /><br />I'm here for you, Jo. Give me a call some night or maybe take a ride up to see us some weekend. You are always welcome. :) And I always care.Linhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07042143254001890567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-32863908054363117982010-05-09T06:27:49.169-05:002010-05-09T06:27:49.169-05:00Jo, please, be happy. Do what will make you happy ...Jo, please, be happy. Do what will make you happy in the long run. It's terribly hard. Believe me, I know. I will pray for you!!!!Liz Mayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13960276167677132860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-41241074248106474582010-05-08T17:13:37.208-05:002010-05-08T17:13:37.208-05:00Jo,
(((HUGS))) It takes a lot to share such perso...Jo,<br /><br />(((HUGS))) It takes a lot to share such personal stuff on your blog. It's good therapy isn't it?! I agree with both the above comments. <br /><br />Hang in there!<br /><br />DianaDiana of Diana Rambleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09837630324310647062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-47586004040926264592010-05-08T14:37:46.536-05:002010-05-08T14:37:46.536-05:00Jo-
First of all, as far as you go, the grass is a...Jo-<br />First of all, as far as you go, the grass is always and was always greener. You were so worried about yourself that you didn't realize that everyone was worried about themselves and not you.<br />As far as knight goes, you need to do what's best for you and take care of yourself (without going into too many details in a blog comment). His issue may really be more about himself than you.I am Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14018601282810481033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8848298869710906469.post-51590778105162087902010-05-08T09:13:20.514-05:002010-05-08T09:13:20.514-05:00From here I see you in 3-D. Full color, against a...From here I see you in 3-D. Full color, against a textured background. Know that you have friends who care and who pray for you.Secondary Roadshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05116234285533139701noreply@blogger.com